Patty Kogutek, author of “A Change of Habit,” has helped thousands cure their anxiety, living “guilt-free.” Living as a Catholic nun for 7 years, and working her way through a 12 year failed marriage, Patty gathered “7 Secrets to Guilt-Free Living” that gave her the courage and the permission to finally follow her heart putting the expectation of others aside.


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Adriana Trigiani “Patty Kogutek is a spiritual dynamo! She may have had a Change of Habit but when it comes to life, never a change of heart. She is all about friendship, family and faith, and writes of all three with verve.” -Adriana Trigiani Bestselling author of Big Stone Gap

Are You Losing Your Eyesight?

A blind person asked St. Anthony “Can there be anything worse that losing your eyesight?  He replied, “Yes, losing your vision!” We all can get sidetracked so easily. And maintaining vision is essential! As the principal of an elementary school, I thought of myself as the “gatekeeper” and the “keeper of the vision”.  I constantly reminded teachers, students, boards and parents of our final goal.  We had to keep the end, our priority, in sight in order not to get detoured by the “latest and greatest” diversion along the way. So too, in our lives we must keep forging ahead to our goal of love and happiness, fighting the urge to wander aimlessly in the negativity that oftentimes surrounds us. It’s easy to lose sight of our destiny and seek out a day-to-day existence by merely putting in our time, pulling us away from our “reason” on earth. Here are three ideas to maximize your time keeping that “vision” in front of you, no matter where life tries to drag you!  Affirmations:  Have personal affirmations ready to “recite” each day to keep you steady in your resolve. When stress or worry invades my mind, I reinforce my feeling of well-being with this affirmation: “An avalanche of abundance is pouring down on me, under grace and in the perfect time.” When I mentally recite this, I not only reaffirm my abundance but a wealth of feelings of gratitude spring up within with the worry draining out of my heart. Readings:  Make it part of your daily routine to take a few quiet minutes to read motivational content, books, blogs, etc. that... read more

You Are Not Alone

Although we come into this world alone and leave alone, we do not live alone. I believe that angels are always surround us. They walk beside us each day. To me that is a very comforting thought. Angels are around us all the time, in the very air we breathe. They lead us to our destiny, they protect us from our enemies and they console us in troubled times. We are wrapped in their love and light, whether we realize it or not. Angels, coming from a multidimensional field are beings of light, neither male or female; rather they are both and more. As humans, we tend to think of them as “us” so we can more easily identify with them. But unlike us, they can appear in many forms, but they are ultimately formless. Angels stem from that point of creation that is eternal, pure light and love.  Angels can be our bridge, between what we see and feel physically, and what we can see and feel spiritually. And we need them! It’s comforting to know that each of us has a special angel dedicated to our personal protection, our guardian angel. I remember learning the prayer to my guardian angel as a child: “Angel of God, my guardian dear, to whom God’s love commits me here. Ever this day be at my side to light, to guard, to rule and guide. Amen” Angels are as active in our daily lives as we invite them to be. Since we have a free will, angels wait for our requests to intervene helping with almost anything. But we must ask! Angels quietly go... read more

Life’s An Adventure Don’t Forget Your Attitude

What attitude do you bring to each day? Do you drown your mind in judgment, finding faults with others and yourself? Or do you brighten your day with the attitude of “anticipating miracles”? You can wake up each day recounting the difficulty you have with parts of your body that no longer work, or you can get out of bed thankful for the ones that do. This invisible attitude, even before we rise, is very important as we unwrap the gift of each day.  Choose to be a Miracle Seeker! Miracle Seekers naturally add anticipation to their days. Their minds and their hearts have to be in the “ready position” for whatever may happen. Miracle Seekers adopt an attitude of positive intent: they want to see, expect to see, and intend to see everything working for the highest good during the day. Even small mundane tasks can be turned into positive activities with your attitude. Put some “positive spin”on it. Instead of thinking that “I have to go to the grocery store”, think “I GET to go to the grocery store.” When approaching simple tasks this way, it also calls to mind other blessings that you have:  the money to buy groceries, a wonderful family to feed and living in a country where food is readily available. With this habit of anticipation, Miracle Seekers strive to remain grateful as the day unfolds bringing pleasant and not so pleasant situations. No matter what happens though, they try to find the silver lining, knowing that everything works out for the best. Eventually. Our loving, heavenly Father would only send you the best. Nothing is... read more

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